Gay chat line
questions answered.
Everything you need to know before your first Man to Man call.
Is Man to Man free to try?
Yes. New callers receive free introductory access so they can experience the line. Depending on your telephone plan, standard carrier charges may still apply.
What number do I call?
Call 888-510-9810. On a mobile device, tap any “Talk Free” button on this site.
Do I need to download an app?
No. Man to Man works by phone. Call and follow the spoken instructions.
Who is the line for?
The line is for adult gay, bisexual and curious men age 18 or older who want to talk with other men.
Can other callers see my number?
No. Your direct phone number is not displayed to the men you meet through the chat line.
What should I say in my greeting?
Introduce yourself naturally. You can mention your general age range, personality, interests and the kind of conversation or connection you hope to find. Do not reveal identifying or financial information.
What if I am not interested in a caller?
Keep browsing or end the conversation politely. There is no obligation to connect or continue talking.
Can I use the line if I am bisexual or curious?
Yes. You do not need to choose a particular label. The service welcomes adult men interested in respectful conversation with other men.
Is phone chat only for dating?
No. Men call for casual conversation, friendship, flirting, dating-style connection and the simple pleasure of meeting someone new.
How can I stay safe?
Protect identifying and financial information, respect boundaries and use care if you decide to communicate or meet outside the service. Read our privacy and safety guide.